Women sniff when they look at me or passing by

my interactions with women are always horrible im regularly called gay slurs laughed at or made fun off. Im a 30yr old male. A recent example, im at a retail store with my mom. She stops to go through some clothing, im to her right but notice im standing Infront of a mirror so i move to her left. I notice a woman maybe 20ft ahead of me shopping and she looks over at me, immediately stops shopping and leaves to the right. I presume this was the same person who then passed behind us and sniffed. Another woman the same day at a near by store around my age or slightly younger was also shopping and as Im walking past her she says ‘try hard’. My mom tells me these things dont happen and im just hearing things and my councilor says they doubt people will treat others so poorly and so openly in public with whole f a g, queer and homo comments let alone laughing, mocking and the sniffs and coughs